Coaching
with Danielle & Trudie
Ready to take back your control and be supported every step of the way?
When you work with us, we teach you how to spend your time on things that are moving you forward, toward your goals, to help ensure that none of your precious time, money or energy is wasted.
Keep scrolling to learn more about working with me one-on-one, including my fees.
You don’t have time or money to waste doing the wrong things
…including things that could harm your outcome.
Hi, I’m Danielle
I’ve been an educator for 25 years, and have been supporting and coaching women since 2009.
I’ve experienced family violence and post-separation abuse, and successfully navigated high-conflict divorce - including a three year court battle.
I help women take back their control while they navigate their separation, divorce or co-parenting situations with a controlling former partner - supporting them to focus their time and other resources on the things that actually work when trying to secure a positive outcome.
Taking back your power, and transforming your life for the better, is possible when you have the right support and the right tools…
What you get with Danielle & Trudie
The specific work we do with clients varies because it is tailored specifically to what each individual client needs and wants to focus on.
We teach our clients that separation from a controlling person, including recovery afterwards, should be approached like a marathon - it’s not helpful to treat it like a sprint. This means learning to master your mindset and emotions, and soothe your nervous system, over time. We then combine this with being strategically focused on the overall big-picture, and optimising your overall outcome.
Our coaching is clear, straightforward and solution-focused - and we’re beside you every step of the way.
Coaching includes a lot of caring support, along with moments of inspiring teaching and gentle motivational guidance.
This can involve inviting you to step outside of your comfort zone to discover, and transform, current thoughts, emotions and behaviours that aren’t serving you and could be holding you back from moving forward (or could negatively impact your credibility if your situation progresses to court).
Everything we do when navigating our own experience of high-conflict separation, divorce, co-parenting (and life afterwards!) needs to be focused on the results we want.
This might include things like;
• Creating a strategy
• Getting clear on what is a ‘fair’ financial split.
• Creating a developmentally appropriate, and age appropriate, parenting plan for your children
• Preparation for mediation
• Choosing a lawyer
• Readiness for court hearings and evaluations
• Strategic co-parenting communication
• Documentation of abuse
• How AI technology can be used to streamline things like communication and documentation
• And all the other ways we spend our time, money and energy
*This is not a complete list
What our clients are saying…
“I felt so comfortable chatting with Danielle on the discovery call and I signed up for a Coaching Package as soon as I received the Coaching Invitation.
I’m a Doctor, and have been feeling a lot of shame for the situation that I’m in. On so many levels I feel like I should have known better. Working with Danielle is one of the easiest decisions I’ve ever made - if I was sick I wouldn’t hesitate to find an expert to help me. Lawyers are great to advise about the law, but when it comes to understanding abusive people, who may have a personality disorder, Danielle is my number one choice. ”
“I first found Danielle on Instagram, and everything she posted resonated with me. I’m so glad that I made the choice to book a Discovery Call and learn more about how Danielle can help. I’m already being a lot more strategic with my communication to my ex, and I feel so relieved to have the support of someone who understands what I’m up against, and someone who has actually been through the court process.
First-hand experience is just one of the things that makes Danielle stand out from other divorce professionals. ”
“Working with Danielle has already saved me THOUSANDS in legal fees. Also, my legal team may have experience with high-conflict people, but they don’t have much experience with being strategic when dealing with a personality disordered person - this is where working with Danielle has been invaluable!”
“Being able to send screenshots of my narcissistic ex’s messages to Danielle, and have her support to craft a strategic response, has been a game changer. If you are struggling with communicating with your ex stop wondering about working with Danielle and just f*cking DO IT! You won’t regret it. After many months of sleepless nights, I’m finally starting to sleep properly - that’s what working with Danielle can do!”
Taking back your power during high-conflict divorce isn’t an exception in our world, it’s the rule.
Ready to get started?