How to work with us

We work with women at all stages of their separation, divorce or co-parenting journey.

You may need support with planning, strategy, setting boundaries, communicating with your ex, parenting plans, court preparation or more.

Whatever you’re dealing with, we can help.

LEARN MORE ABOUT COACHING WITH DANIELLE & TRUDIE

 

Who we work with...

Should you stay, or should you go? Let's talk.

Separation...

Women who are thinking about separating from their high-conflict partner and are searching for clarity about their relationship, and certainty about their next steps. For some, this may ultimately include support to make a separation plan…

You’re not alone.

Divorce & Co-Parenting…

…women who have already separated and are in the trenches dealing with the reality of a controlling former partner and want more tools, strategy, confidence and support.

There is a better way, take our hand.

Recovery...

…and women who want to believe that life can be wonderful again, even though they didn’t sign up for this sh*t… women who want support to heal, recover… and create an un-f*ck-withable life that they love.

So much is possible - are you ready to claim it?

If any of these statements resonate with you, you should consider working with us:

 

• I feel like I’m alone and that very few people in my world seem to understand what I’m dealing with.

• I’m new to divorcing a controlling person (or ‘narcissist’) and I don’t want to make a mistake.

• I’m worried that my ex might go after me legally for significant care of my children.

• I’m preparing to leave, and want to do what I can to optimise my outcome right from the start.

• My ex has already started ‘telling his story’ to others, and it’s very different to the truth.

• I’m struggling to accept the reality of my situation, and I’m not sure what I should reasonably expect going forward. I want to minimise nasty surprises.

• I don’t understand what matters to the court or professionals connected to the court. I feel lost.

• I want to talk to someone who understands what I need strategically, and who also has a positive lived experience of the court system - hearing horror stories of court isn’t helping, I need facts to help me manage my expectations.

• I’m not sure if my lawyer is the right fit. I don’t know if I need to change lawyers, or use a different approach with them to help them understand my situation better.

• I don’t feel heard or understood by my lawyer.

• I’m struggling with what I should document, and how I should do it.

• I’m concerned about the financial separation. I’d like to get a sense of what ‘fair’ means before I’ve spent hundreds (or thousands!) on a lawyer or other associated costs.

• I’d like support to help ensure that my decisions are informed and well thought-out. I don’t want to mistakenly agree to a financial split, or parenting arrangement, out of fear or some other emotion.

• I’ve been told to use ‘grey rock’ communication with my ex, but I’m not informed about how it might negatively impact my case and my overall outcome. I don’t want to accidentally harm my case.

• I’m preparing for mediation or a meeting with a Court Child Expert, and I have no idea what to realistically expect.

• I’m worried about the impact on my kids.

When you say YES to working with us, you are saying YES to creating a solid foundation for years to come…the solid foundation that you deserve.